It’s 2018. The air is getting cooler and I’m finally wearing my favorite sweatshirt that’s been tucked in the back of the closet since March. It’s officially pumpkin spice everything season and I am in heaven. I’m perusing Pinterest like it’s my job, looking for new holiday recipes, décor inspiration for my Christmas tree, and searching for new and elaborate family traditions to add to my already exhaustive list. Back then, I was freshly postpartum with my second daughter and chasing around a toddler, while also juggling a full-time job and managing a chronic illness (hello, rheumatoid arthritis). I was…