Thinking about names, decorating the room, choosing tiny clothes—there’s nothing as exciting and absorbing as planning for a baby! Once upon a time, women with lupus were counseled against getting pregnant. Today lupus is much better understood, and successful pregnancies are the rule, not the exception. That’s great news for all the would-be moms with this challenging disease. But in order to make your pregnancy the best it can be, it’s essential to make a pregnancy plan with both your rheumatologist and your obstetrician. That’s because your health and your baby’s health need to be closely followed before, during, and…